While I work or read or do anything, a part of me is noticing what I’m thinking, what I’m observing, and so forth. Yesterday, I kept feeling SO excited about the show coming up that night. I felt fun, laughter, joy and a wonderful sense of connection.

My guest last night was Ellany Cevan. I had spontaneously asked her to be on the show one day while we were out and about (see what we were doing that day below). She said yes, and planned to talk about “it’s never too late to find true love.”

Yesterday, I wondered why I could feel SO much energy moving. But, then when I got to the call, I could SEE why… lots of people tuned in live.

When I got to the call, I could see why so many STAYED tuned in! Ellany was completely real, captivating and down to Earth, telling her story the way she lived it with courage, strength and conviction. If you have not heard it yet, definitely TUNE in because this podcast was all about loving yourself, too.

I found many things popping out at me last night. One was that we each have a hand in encouraging and teaching each other how to love – both ourselves and others. As Ellany talked, what came to my mind was the idea of women looking for love when they already have children. I remembered one of my friends – one of the DEAREST people on the planet – saying, “Who’s going to want me? I have three kids and I’m over 40!” That came up and as I said it, my voice cracked into a thousand little pieces as I connected to the energy that spoke it.

Ellany could relate and she shared how that had felt to her, and how it does seem like if you have kids a guy wouldn’t be interested because that’s what people say, but then she flipped it and helped people see the other side of the equation. And, by the way, my DEAR friend who said that, found a WONDERFUL guy who had kids and they fell madly in love and, well, that limited thought is in the DISTANT past!

As you live your life… are you focused on what is GREAT or what could be thought of as ‘not so great’… if you are looking at the ‘not so great,’ how can you FLIP it? For example, if you have kids and you want to be in a new relationship, just think about how much YOU love your child or children. What’s special about them? What’s AMAZING? Can you imagine how LUCKY someone would be to have that child in their lives? Wow! Wow! WOW!

Children are a wonderful gift! And, I have to share this, too. My DEAR friend who found her Prince Charming introduced us to him last October. As he talked, I could sense the gratitude he had for the man who married his mother who had TWO children when they married! His step-father had been an unbelievable guiding force in his life and treated him like the son he always wanted.

There’s always a different perspective… one that is empowered and alive with the divine part of who you are!

Ellany, thank you for ‘keeping it real’ (what I kept hearing yesterday). What an amazing conversation!

A few weeks ago, Ellany told me she was going to go to see a Mac consultant for a makeover. The last makeover I had was when I was 16 (back when pink and gray were the ‘in’ colors!), and I instantly felt like I wanted to go. So, we went and had so much fun. Ellany wanted a smoky, ‘going out’ look and I wanted the look that I’ve been seeing everywhere… this ‘dewy,’ fresh, lipstick is just so look. So, here we are after our makeovers! I can say this looks a LOT better than when I was 16 (when I vowed I would NEVER do another makeover!) I’ve been talking about trying new things to open up new ways of thinking, and the first thing the woman did was suggest to use PEACH colors. I had horror thoughts of the old Estee Lauder peaches from when I was a teen, and I said, “Oh no, I don’t look good in peaches.” The Mac lady was so nice, and said, “There aren’t any rules any more. Are you willing to try something new?” I was shocked to find I LOVE my new lipstick in a peachy-pink tone! AND, it was a near-perfect match to the colors I had seen on TV on women I thought looked amazing! Who knew?

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