Posts Tagged ‘Change’

Join us this Thursday (8 pm Central) when I’ll be interviewing Susan Kennedy, a.k.a. SARK, and discussing her new book, Glad No Matter What Transforming Loss and Change Into Gift and Opportunity.

I know many of you are huge SARK fans and am sure this will be a sweet treat!

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Glad No Matter What: Transforming Loss and Change into Gift and Opportunity

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Yesterday, I wrote about anger. But, seriously, is everyone crankier than normal? For me, I float around in a love-bliss state most of the time, but what I have noticed as we’ve been out and about at different times of day and in situations where we normally don’t frequent… is an overall feeling of agitation.

Beyond the headline making stories of Steven Slater and others, I believe this is indicative of the stress most people are dealing with and that there are many, many more people dealing with stress who have not ever really had to deal with stress before – white collar workers, in particular.

What I’ve seen in my companies (from our marketing agency to our current company) is that successful people can laser beam onto a goal better than most, and they can ignore pretty much anything else around them as they focus in on achieving the target set before them.

Well, isn’t that handy? (insert Church Lady voice here)

But, what happens when you don’t have a goal because the entire game board has been turned upside down? What happens when everything you thought you knew isn’t at all acting like what you believed?

Well, welcome to today. Welcome to Crankyville. Where Mr. and Mrs. Overachiever has turned into Mr. and Mrs. Crankypants.

What to do?

Quit trying to do everything the way you used to do it. That’s what is making you so cranky (and perhaps crazy and a bit OVER stressed). Start creating some new neuro pathways in your head and get back into the world – playing a new game.

You just might feel like you are 18 again!

it's hot outside - Texas

And speaking of CRANKY… 108 degrees for days on end… this is how we feel down here in Texas! Swimming Pool anyone?

I woke up this morning with this quote in my mind. Gandhi shared this with the world so long ago, and I wondered why I woke up with it. Maybe it was because last night, while meditating right before going to sleep, I asked about how I could be myself and help others be themselves, too.

For a long time I’ve been aware of this feeling of wanting to ‘fit in’ somewhere, but never feeling like anything quite fit. In some groups it has felt distinct… like there was an invisible barrier up, and in others it just didn’t feel right.

I thought of people I know who share this same sense. Not in a bad way, as in “I don’t belong” or “You don’t belong here” … more in a way of… “Where do I belong?”

I am happy where I am, happy with my life, and yet I sense there’s a community out there to which I am gravitating toward. In the last couple of months it has felt like the flood gates have opened for souls who are a ‘fit.’ The conversations are easy… the time flies… the energy flows. It feels good.

So… my wondering today… What change do I wish to see in the world? Hmmm….good question.

Be The Change You Wish To See In The World -Gandhi Magnet

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